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I've been reading a bit more about empaths and I've read about something that sounds very familiar to me. Do any of the empaths on here find that people seem to fall in love with them way too quickly? Like you meet them and the next day you are getting messages saying that they are in love with you. Or do you guys attract really weird obsessive types that just never get over you?

At the risk of sounding really conceited, these are the kinds of things that happen to me all the time. One of my friends has apparently loved me since we were like 9 (and we are 25), another since I was 12 and two of my ex's still aren't over me. Another one of my friends also has a thing for me and he never let's girls get close to him. They are the main ones but there are others.

A few other girls who are empaths have posted similar things on the net and I'm wondering if it's just coincidence or if the two are linked, cause that would explain a lot. I'm not exactly supermodel material and I'm a bit weird so I just can't think of what it would be about me that would inspire such devotion aside from this.

It's actually really annoying me because the empath thing means that every time I get into a new relationship I get a wave of guilt and upset from all angles cause my little 'following' as it were is upset. A lot of these guys are really good friends and I've told them all where I stand and hence where they stand but they can't seem to get over it.

I would love to hear about any similar experiences from other empaths and any methods they have for managing it. Anything would help.

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chami (1 posts)
3 years ago (2017-12-19)
This one question is actually why I joined this site. They don't seem to be able to let me go. They treat me like crap and take me for granted when I'm with them but the moment I'm done, and cut all the energy cords, so to speak... Suddenly they're desperate to have me back again. I don't get it. Very few of them ever move on and find happiness elsewhere, they just hope that I'll take them back again someday. I feel very guilty about it, like I damaged them or something. Now when I fall in love, I'm worried that I might end up wrecking the person, like all the rest. 😢
bczargirl (1 posts)
10 years ago (2010-10-30)
Unfortunately, this happens to me a lot. I have never been in a serious relationship, or a real relationship at all for that matter. The 'clingy' nature of these guys is too suffocating. I hate it, I wish there was a way to counterbalance that. =/
valkyrie (2 stories) (40 posts)
10 years ago (2010-09-14)
its gotten so bad that I can't even bring myself to date anyone for the fear of this constant love thing.
valkyrie (2 stories) (40 posts)
10 years ago (2010-09-14)
omg yes! Finally! For some reason, every SINGLE person I meet does this! (even some girls))
incomplete (1 stories) (7 posts)
10 years ago (2010-03-05)
I completely understand you... I know how difficult it is when its your close friend who likes you that way... And the feeling of guilt too is hard... But don't worry, after all your not the one to blame
ermacd (2 stories) (19 posts)
10 years ago (2010-03-02)
Veero, you hit it spot on. Every serious girl I've been with, it gets intense fast. Even when I try to create space it still gets intense quickly. So I've accepted it and enjoy it while it lasts. I'd rather that than stretching the game out and always wondering where it's going.
Theoryb4time (1 stories) (6 posts)
10 years ago (2010-01-28)
I'm an empath, and I find that the more energy I radiate the more people come to me.
It could be that you radiate a love so powerful that they can't help themselves, but that's just a theory. The best way I can say to get it to stop is to learn how to control how much of your power you let off. You know? I don't know, I'm new to this stuff, seeing as I have ignored it for the past four years.
pegs_deborah (3 stories) (112 posts)
10 years ago (2010-01-27)
Yes! I was too embarrassed to every say anything to anyone or ask anyone if they had had this problem. It sounds conceited. Thanks for posting
Veero (3 posts)
10 years ago (2010-01-27)
Hi Tess. Like yourself I am an empath and have noticed that people become attached to me very quickly. My friends for example tend to become very possessive over me quickly and in terms of relationships the guys that seemed to not want to get serious got serious with me quickly. I think it has to do with our ability to get to know people very fast. I feel like it makes people open up faster and true to themselves. So they grow very attached.

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