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A Psychic Told Me That I Am An Empathic Clairvoyant


A few months ago I was told by a highly regarded clairvoyant that I am an empathic clairvoyant. Thirty years after being born and my life finally starts to make sense. She also told me that I could become a psychic but she warned against it because of the time and energy devoted to it.

I've spent much of my life trying to avoid my abilities. I fought hard against them. Consequently, I fell into an anxious state. I suffered from anxiety for a number of years. I ended up conquering it and got back to living life more fully.

Now I know that the abilities will always be there, no matter how hard I try to alleviate them. With that knowledge, I'm trying to live in acceptance of them and to use those abilities as something beneficial to myself and to all those around me. The problem is I don't really know what I should be doing.

The biggest thing for me right now is being comfortable in my body and in this world. I'm working hard on boosting my confidence level, on meditation skills, and being more in the moment.

I understand how to control it. I've done that for a long time. What I really want to know is how to use it to an advantage. How do I master it? How do I make it work for my life and to help make the world a better place?

Since my meeting with the clairvoyant I've made some huge changes in my life. Instead of running away from the abilities, I've been spending lots of time learning to embrace them. Is there anything besides meditation I should be doing? I've already started to use moldavite, which has helped a lot so far. And I'm a lot more open about everything too.

The abilities that are most pronounced right now are, first, the empathic. I walk into a room full of strangers and I can tell, for the most part, what each person is feeling and what he/she is typically like.

I don't know if this is an ability or not, but for a long time it's been more of an obstacle to me. My mind is incredibly active. Even without closing my eyes, I can see various surroundings and the most vibrant details. Recently, I've been able to calm it down quite a bit, but I can't control it when I'm sleeping. My dreams are often quite vivid. Sometimes I'll wake up and have a beautiful piece of music in my head, but it's nothing I've heard before. I've tried learning the guitar, but no sense of passion for playing music.

Astral planing has been a big focus, but only recently have I discovered what it is.

I used to have a lot of "coincidences" happen around me, but that one has become less and less. It usually happens if I'm around someone else who is aware.

If you have any ideas, please help. Right now, I'm writing a book. I'm also looking at getting into life coaching and motivational speaking. Numerous times I've been told to go into acting. I know that's going to take some time, but it's a great outlet for me. What I'd like to know for now is how else I can work on my abilities. Your advice and comments are greatly appreciated.

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psychicAngel (guest)
14 years ago (2010-05-22)
Thank you for writing you story - it is really honest and peace-giving to read and yours too - Angel36 and Baby Eyes 1.

Ermacd, one thing that did strike a chord the most with me reading your story was how much you avoided your abilities and how hard you fought against them. I have been experiencing an inner battle that has grown in intensity over the years, after a series of punctuations in my life experiences by mediums who came out with blunt, but kind, feedback about my ability. I really empathise with you and I go through phases of being totally connected and fulfilling the psychic/mediumistic powerfulness I have been given and other times, disconnecting completely from it (or so I like to believe) with various escape-it-all tactics, that are becoming tiresome even to me. But I am learning to be as kind to myself as others say I am to them and all I can say honestly is that I am on a personal journey, that while painful, I know I am continually developing and that this is almost the greater part if not definately of my journey - to accpet God's gift to me (and others) and use it openly, not suppress it or hide my light under a bushel. The main thing for me has been facing why I push it away, as it gets ever stronger.

I got online quite late tonight to read your input Dezdoll88, but would like to reassure you before I go is not to be araid of what you are experiencing - I know that is easier said than done - but I have this experience most days and it was really heart-warming to read your words, because I get it happen a lot and I never talk about it to people in the various communities I am part of, because they rationalise it or label me weird and I know in my heart it is a gift and it is nice that here - I don't have to hide it and can talk about it openly.
Iunderstand (3 stories) (153 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-25)
I believe I'm an empath as well. My experiences seem to be much deeper and also more random than most iv read about. Most of the time when I do it I hyperfocus on a single person. Sometimes I do it to myself. Its kind of like playing guess who. Remember that old kids game? The way I practice is I focus on someone I know and just imagine things they might do, say, become...etc. I do it when I watch movies to figure them out. Imagine you are an engineer that designing a structure. The structure you are designing is a person. Don't think you feel you are right, know you are right because makes sence. I help people all the time, iv been doin it my whole life. By the way, I'm 23 and only learned what an empath is just yesterday. For the past 3 days I'm spent all thought hyperfocused on this subject. Know this, what you and I do is not some x-men power as some on this discribe it. Its mostly psychological. I'm big into psychology as well as theology and philosophy. Think of a few things for a while, 1- the answer is only a confident restatement of the question. 2- in between any two numbers there are an infinite number of numbers. 3- think of water. 4- the mental world and the spiritual world are just as real as the physical world. In closing, I do believe I have magical powers, because that is ridiculous. You and I, as well as people like us, are simply connected to the mental and spiritual world moreso than the common physically focused person. Just yesterday I was very scared but I'm not anymore. My email is Rountree11b (at) if you ever want talk more about this with me.
angela36 (1 stories) (15 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-15)
So nice to read your story. As you know, I have problems myself.

One thing I learned about a year ago: (this is strange but probably one of the best things that ever happened to me). I was in Poland at Auschwitz. In the town outside, there was a bench where I sat and allowed my "problems" to come to me. It wasn't meditation but more like opening a door. I allowed myself to face the "problems and causes of my stresses". That is when messages began to come to me.
I cannot explain to you how to open this door, but it's like telling your mind and body to listen on another level. As scary as that sounds, I believe it was the first step to getting a grip on this.
On the otherhand, now I am having a really hard time with the rest. I wish I could help you more.
Perhaps having online support will allow you to draw strength and channel what you have. Your story is impressive.
BabyEyes1 (1 stories) (4 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-15)
It was nice to read your story.
I myself have become "open" to the idea of this all bieng real. It was a hard for me to accept the fact that I may be different. Or have "gifts" as others have called it. Because to me it doesn't always seem like a "gift".
Not that I would ever want it to go away. And as more time passes the more I am comfortable in who I am. Although I am left what seems to be alone. With a thousand questions to ask and no one to talk to.
I had met someone this last summer who was a perfect match for me. Not in a relationship stand point, but more in a spiritual.
He and I connected on a level that I never have with anyone. And he also was said to have a "gift" of astral planing.
I find that I am empathetic. I also can walk into a room of people and point my finger sort of speak and explain who is feeling what and why.
So reading your story helped a lot thanks.
dezdoll88 (2 stories) (23 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-14)
thank you so much for the advice! I always thought there might be some spirits in my house ecpecially in my room because I have a door to the attic in my room and a few times I have heard weird noises coming from there and my dad checked to see if there were rats but the attic is completely empty.
ermacd (2 stories) (19 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-13)
Dezdoll, I'm not sure exactly of what you're going through, but I can offer some advice. My guess is that it may be a spirit. I very recently suffered from gruesome dreams. It worked for me to say something like "Tonight, I am going to have wonderful dreams. There will be no bad spirits. I am only inviting positive/nice spirits to come in." Take a few deep breaths and focs on some positive things. I hope it works out. And don't worry, you're not alone with these things. My parents and many of my closest friends have no idea of this part of me. I'll eventually open up about it but for now, I'm still learning and enjoying talking about it with others that understand. If you can look at your gifts postively, then you will start to attract people who can empathize with you and help guide you along. Be careful of that point to. There are evil forces within this world and it's easy to succumb to them. If you can accept that and choose to go the positive route, it will help a lot.

I've never gone throught the paralyzed thing, but definitely have heard, and continue to hear voices. I know they are internal. I let them pass as I would frivlous thoughts. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you're not crazy. Keep reading the stories on this site and know that you are NOT crazy, and best of all, you are not alone. Things will work out for you.
dezdoll88 (2 stories) (23 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-13)
and also when I sleep ill wake up out of a dead sleep but ill be half asleep and be paralyzed and my body will shake. And it usually happens around 3 a.m. And it really is scary because ill hear voices but no one will be there and once I come out of the paralyzed state and wake up, the voices go away... I'm a 15 year old girl looking for answers for these weird experiences that my parents make fun of me for and say I'm crazy...
dezdoll88 (2 stories) (23 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-13)
i think I have what you have but I'm not sure... I have dreams and in them there's one thing I really remember and think about and the next day that part of my dream happens in some shape or form. Its really scary actually and if someone could help me and tell me what this is then it would really make me feel better.
aussiedaz (2 stories) (37 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-12)
Hello, before you go to sleep, have a look at the back of your hands, say to yourself 10 times when I'm sleeping I will remember to look at the back of my hands, this is the only part of our body when we sleep, we don't normaly see, I won't give away what may happen, but you will find it interesting should you achieve it.
stardust77 (2 stories) (15 posts)
14 years ago (2010-03-12)

I'm really glad I came by your story, you posted in mine and it made me feel really happy that someone shares very similar experiences and thoughts.

Like you, I can usually distinguish what each person is like when I step into a room full of strangers, and in a new environment, I naturally gravitate towards people who have a pure heart and mind. Sometimes though, I will purposely approach "darker" people, for what reason I don't know. I haven't figured it out yet.

I've been having regular meet ups with my mentor, trying to understand, learning. Maybe you can get the clairvoyant to teach you on ways to hone your skills too?

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