It happened last year during my studies, around the time I was leaving my apartment and moving to a new one. The night before shifting I slept in my lab and after I came home the next day morning my roommate asked me if there was any reason for not sleeping at the apartment. I told him that I just fell asleep in the lab and did not come back. I asked him why and he said that he was just curious and nothing else. It was the at beginning of Fall and I hardly spent any time at the apartment before moving, I was either at the new place or at the lab.
After a week, when we met, he told me that the reason he asked was because he saw a dark figure sitting on my bed, back against the wall. His bed is parallel to mine. I did not know what to say and was not willing to believe but he told me that it was true. He got scared and ran the hell out of there and went to the kitchen. He drank a glass of water and was thinking of what to do about it. He did not want to show any fear in front of the entity and so went back to the bedroom and back to sleep. It really scared me and was beginning to think if it was the reason for the earlier experiences and nightmares.
In Spring the same year the same roommate had a dream that his Uncle who had passed away a few years ago, was under the bed and slowly pulling my roommate towards him. He sprung up from his bed, I was still awake and told me of the nightmare. He felt that the temperature of the room had dropped, meaning there might be a spirit. We were both scared but after a while just went to sleep. In the following months he had no more troubles and slept well. In Summer he went to his Aunt's place and as I took a course, I stayed in the apartment.
Summer was fine until one morning when I had two horrific nightmares, the kind I believe I had not experienced for a long time. I saw MY uncle's dead body in the middle and I was crying and resting my head in my aunt's lap. She said it was fine and not to worry about it. Then all of a sudden her voice changes to a strange tone, takes my name and starts laughing. Then the dream changes to me on my bed, my eyes are open and there is someone holding me down. I am not able to move and I am trying hard but finally I managed to pull myself out of the dream. I was really scared but after a while I just went back to sleep and had the same kind of dream. This time a force next to my bed holding me down. I knew that it was a dream and had to pull my self out of it with a lot of force. Then on I have been afraid to sleep in the dark and could not help the feeling that I was not alone in the room. I thought that it could only be my imagination.
Then I started having this dream every few months and did not know what was wrong. I guess every time it was a woman holding me down, only once a man playing a flute and entering my room from the window.
I got into a relationship the same time around beginning of Fall. My studies got delayed by a semester, not for this reason but for some other. Grades and studies did not go great. I had two jobs this time around said no to both of them for further studies and then it did not work out. So no jobs or studies now. The relationship ended and had a negative impact on me. I fell everything is just going negatively and am starting to wonder if there is some negative energy around me that is making my life hard. Please help!