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Psychic Empath Troubles With Love And Relationships


I've known that I was a psychic empath for quite some time. My abilities started to hit me when I was about 7 years old and (unknowingly) started astral projecting on a regular basis. By the time I was 9, I was feeling everything around me, and with a father with extreme anger problems this caused me to become very depressed, physically Ill and psychotic to the point where the energy around me was so bad that I have to be hospitalized many times and people thought I was crazy. I also have the ability to communicate with spirits so the doctors also though I was schizoid. I always knew that I wasn't crazy but psychic abilities aren't held accountable in psychiatric medicine so they drugged me up from the age of about 14-16 and I was put in a state hospital for about 6 months. After I was released I stopped all of the meds and decided it was time for me to face the feelings and energies all around me, meditate, reflect astral project again, learn to distinguish what feelings were mine, and ones that were not, and learn how to ground and protect myself from the never ending torrents of energy around me.

Since then I have lived a normal life, I work for a non-profit organization helping at risk/homeless teens. Helping people has always been my greatest strength, and people naturally trust and confide in me. My life is amazing and I am grateful for all of the blessings that I have received. The only thing missing in my life now is love. When I meet someone I automatically have a picture painted in front of me who they are, their intentions, their feelings about themselves, whether they are good people or not and most people I encounter are just not what I'm looking for, they carry too much emotional baggage, or I simply do not feel anything for them in a romantic way. Do empaths even have any kind of hope for love or serious relationships? I have a tremendous amount of love to give I just cannot connect with anyone. Any type of feed back or suggestions are welcome.

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Storytellerin (2 posts)
11 years ago (2011-11-06)
I fully understand how you feel. I experience this all the time too, but I found a way to cope with it.
Whenever I met someone at first I knew right away their full story. That was very exhausting. People always assume it is good, but it bothered me a lot.

However I realized I can turn it off to a certain degree. It is something like a decision (with your heart). I decided that whenever Î meet someone I would only recognize their story if they want me to. It is kind of like laying an ethic foundation.
Now I still have a very strong 'intuition' about someone when I meet them, but not everything is seen at first sight now.
For me it was a big relief. On the other hand, the intuition is still there and it is true, it is really an advantage to recoginze right away whether a person is right for you or not.
Hope this helps somehow.
Bladewin (6 posts)
11 years ago (2011-11-05)
Thank you, UMAD, for pointing out the links issue. Meditating on your relationship with someone after you make your links healthy again is a nice way to get to know your own side of your relationships better, as well.
UMAD (32 posts)
11 years ago (2011-11-05)
To add on to what Bladewin is saying, it may also be a problem with your connection links.

Relationships have "links" that connect the 2 people emotionally and sometimes, telepathically. These can exist as friend links, mother/father/child links, mate/love links, and sibling links.

If links are clogged or weak, you will not feel as close to whoever you are sharing your relationship link with, and you may not feel as close as you once were with them.

I would suggest you ground yourself by focusing on earth energy to straighten out your emotions that tie into those links. You may also want to try and communicate better with whoever you have a relationship with. This will strengthen links and unclog them.
Bladewin (6 posts)
11 years ago (2011-11-05)
Katone, you experience something many others have, both in the doctor issues and the love issues.

If you can't be your 100% real self around your partner, they are not a soulmate. You can choose to settle, or choose to stand up for how you are, and go for it all. What you do depends on you. I hope you find a soulmate one day, its the best feeling I have ever had. Unfortunately, my own soulmate is dead.

You do what's best for you, even if it means not worrying about love until a soulmate just happens to cross your path. You will meet when both of you are ready.
PathR (4 stories) (1274 posts)
11 years ago (2011-11-04)
katone86 AnneV said just about everything.

I only wish to add!
Why do you not take time and make a list of the
Traits you want and admire.
Visualize this interaction.

This is what I was told to do many years ago.
And the lady whom told me to write it then went on
To say, "Oh well, this an impossible list"?

We'll I am happy to report many years later I'm
Still with the man of my heart, he's not perfect
But neither am I.

I do know those years of not finding the right person.
But there is a good soul out there for you.
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
11 years ago (2011-11-04)
Consider yourself lucky if you are so observant of humans and their nature/intent. Would you rather not be and go down a bunch of romantic roads that just all ended up as a waste? Want to join the 50% of people divorcing each year because they are blinded to the other person prior to the paper commitment (not to mention the other half which are largely miserable)? I'd rather be like you and take my time, stay true to my needs and end up with the "right one" and not just "any one" (and I did just that and am happily married). In many ways, love for an empath is no different than for anyone else. Lining up two people is not easy. As even you pointed out, you've got this mental list of how this person must be to qualify for your romantic love. They too have this list and lining them up is no easy feat.

In my opinion, you already have the best kind of love when you help these other struggling people. It's unconditional and accepting - the best and truest kind. And you "are" connecting with people, all of the time.

Romantic love for most humans is full of demands, projections, and the dealings of the frail ego. The love we experience when we give or the love between mentally healthy family and pets is the best kind. Now we just need to find that mature love with a romantic partner.

It's my opinion that we are destined to meet certain people (even near death experiences meet pre destined children before they are born or are told of a romantic 'one' that they will meet later in life). We can look high and low for them but they will not appear until the time is right - when we are right. If we focus on ourselves, being the best we can be, then we will better line up to the right person at the right time. What we don't want to do is use a person to fill a void/agenda or avoid personal work. But you seem quite on target for personal growth so just stay open to the all knowing universe and they will come.


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